im still a bit short on bills n always accepting money for things. about 260 behind currently. theres always next months rent to worry about as well haha
Rambling on the gender stories we tell and put on other people
I feel like this should go without saying, but I’ve seen a lot of indignant confusion around it so I’d like to sum up my best understanding of the situation in hopes others find it unifying, helpful, or uplifting.
Some trans people were always their current gender, and some trans people changed gender at some point in their lives. For some, the distinction is fuzzy, or perhaps unimportant. Some people are constantly shifting in their gender. Some people had a past life, an alter ego, and some have always been the same person, just misunderstood for a time.
All these people are valid, and their experiences shouldn’t be re-framed to fit one narrative.